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Just when you think you are drowning ... in life, in debt, in your career, with kids... you realize that you can swim!
I think sometimes we all loose focus that we are actually swimming and not drowning! Yes the water is rough and it is pulling against us and sometimes we go under HOWEVER, you have to remember that you are still swimming! You are still moving forward and that my friend is the most important thing !! Keep swimming! #befearless#befearlessbefree#swimming#drowning#learntoswim#lifeisaboutsurviving#survivng #survivor#domesticviolence You don't have time to quit!!!
We have made it absolutely too far to decide to turn around now! You are half way there!! We all need a little motivation to keep us going.. when we are going up the mountain and your arms and legs are tired of climbing and your mind is exhausted and you have no idea how your gonna make it to the top!! DON'T STOP... that's the most important thing.. you are on your way.. you are not where you started and your almost at the end... Perserve, be relentless., keep persisting and keep going!!! Happy Monday!!!! Have you ever felt this way? You know when everything seems crazy and you know for sure your boat is gonna tip over and your gonna drown?
Yeah... the only thing you can do----cause you can't jump off the boat... the ONLY THING YOU CAN DO IS.... SAIL ON!!!!! Ride that wave man! You've got this!! BE FEARLESS IN YOUR PURSUIT OF SAILING YOUR SHIP Today was the day !!!
You will be exhausted from your daily survival... you will need to rest...and then there are those days When you cannot handle another thing! You will wonder what to do next... often the NEXT BEST THING TO DO .. is TO BE STILL... I hate not knowing.. but I know if I'm still my answer will come!! Rest today.. you completed it.... BE FEARLESS IN YOUR PURSUIT OF REST This was a challenge for me. When you want to start something new- your family and friends are may not that happy for you. In fact they may try and talk you out of - moving across country, to another country, getting married, starting a new job.. whatever the case may be....
More than likely it is because they are afraid themselves. When others are afraid- they project their fear onto you! Understand it is your job NOT TO ACCEPT THAT FEAR.... it belongs to them NOT YOU!!! Be careful with whom you share your dreams and aspirations- because they may wrap them in fear and hand them back to you!!! BE FEARLESS IN YOUR PURSUIT OF NOT ACCEPTING FEAR.... Sometimes you just have to laugh!!!
There were days when I thought I would lose ALL OF MY MIND.. in fact I was certain that I was going to!! I lived in fear for so long.. on edge.. that I had no idea how NOT to be afraid. I didn't sleep, I am pretty sure that I developed OCD when it came time to checking windows and doors every night. Laughter is good for the soul! CLOSE YOUR EYES.. AND LAUGH... YOU MADE IT!! The day is over.. your going to be ok.. relax .. .smile BE FEARLESS IN YOUR PURSUIT OF ADDING LAUGHTER TO YOUR LIFE I wanted someone to come safe me ..desperately ..I needed someone to tell me what to do..say..feel...I didn't trust myself to do it.
That's when it hit me...NOBODY is going to save me... I have to do this myself ! As a victim I am certain that we have gotten so use to someone telling us what to do that we are afraid to really think on our own..because hey.... our abuser could be right?? We could be the worst parent, we could be a horrible person, or maybe JUST MAYBE YOU COULD BE OK MAYBE THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH YOU AT ALL It was a journey and sometimes -well the majority of the time- I was sure I was making the wrong decision. However, everything worked itself out. I survived, my children lived, and all was ok with the world- at least for that day.. lol. You have Trust yourself...you can do this !! BE FEARLESS IN YOUR PURSUIT OF SAVING YOURSELF #befearless#befearlessbefree #saveyourself#trustyourself#sundaymotivation#inspirationalsunday#inspiration This picture made me cry.. more importantly it painted a picture of what was going in my head. You have to control your thoughts! When your thoughts are swirling around in your head and nothing seems to be coming together. .. You have to make time to control your mind.
It may mean that you take a deep breath, find a quite place, be still. Do something other than KEEP GOING.... If you keep going- your thoughts will NOT slow down!! They will take over you - and you need to be in control of them. Once you take control of your thoughts- you will know the next thing that you need to do. BE FEARLESS IN THE PURSUIT OF CONTROLLING YOUR THOUGHTS I use to HATE LOOKING IN THE MIRROR- AFTER I left my abuser !! I just refused- not even when I brushed my teeth.. or combined my hair..it was just too much.. Every time that I looked in the mirror I only saw what my abuser said... your ugly, your fat, your stupid, you will never be anything. Then one day- I DARED myself to look in the mirror- and that is when I saw the little girl- the person I use to be... It only takes- believing in yourself for 1 second...and you will be amazed at how you feel... Keep looking your in there... I promise... BE FEARLESS IN THE PURSUIT OF FINDING OF YOURSELF ... |
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